Who Qualifies as a VA Dependent? Understanding Benefits for Family Members and How to Apply (2023)

If you are the spouse, child or parent of a service member, you share in that individual’s military service and sacrifice.

Once the loved one leaves active military service and becomes a Veteran, they qualify for VA benefits, as well as their dependents.

If the family member dies from a service connected disability, dependents get additional benefits.

VA dependent benefits include everything from income benefits to education and medical support.

It is important to understand who is entitled to these benefits and what exactly they can receive, so we’ve created a helpful guide!

What is a Dependent?

A dependent is defined asa family member who relies on an active duty service member or Veteran financially and meets certain criteria.

Dependents can be:

  • a spouse
  • unmarried children (up to 18 or 23 if enrolled in school)
  • parents in the Veteran’s direct care whose net worth and income are below the limit by law

This Veteran must have a service connected disability with a rating at or above 30 percent.

How Do I Add Eligible Dependents to My Monthly VA Benefits?

There are different Veterans Affairs forms for each type of dependent.

  • Spouse – VA Form 21-686c: Declaration of Status of Dependents
  • Children (under 18) – VA Form 21-686c: Declaration of Status of Dependents
  • Children (18-23, enrolled in school) – VA Form21-674: Request for Approval of School Attendance
  • Parents – VA Form 21P-509: Statement of Dependency of Parent(s)
  • If the status changes of any of the dependents, you will need to fill out – VA Form 21-0538: Mandatory Verification of Dependents

What Monthly Benefits Are Available?

Many monthly benefits are available for Veterans with a service connected disability rating of 30% or more.

  • The Department of Veterans Affairsincreases compensation availabledepending on disability rating
  • There are special benefits available to 100 Percent Disabled Veteran Spouses
  • At death, a surviving spouse and other dependents become eligible forDependency Indemnity Compensation (DIC)and is available to spouses, children, and parents
  • Education (Chapter 35)provides up to 36 months of full-time or equivalent education benefitsto spouses and children of most 100% service-connected disabled Veterans.
    • College program
    • Business/Technical School
    • High School/GED
    • Independent Study/Distance Learning
    • Correspondence Courses
    • Apprenticeships/On-the-Job Training
    • Remedial/refresher training
    • Costs for tests and licensure/certifications
  • Medical (CHAMPVA)provides medical care for a spouse and dependent childrenof 100% service-connected disabled Veterans. It covers most services and supplies.

Conditions for Adding Dependent to Benefits

There are several criteria for adding dependents to VA benefits. They include:

  1. You get married
  2. You have a baby or adopt a child
  3. ​Your child is attending school between the ages of 18-23
  4. Your child becomes permanently disabled before the age of 18
  5. You become responsible for a dependent parent whose income falls below a certain threshold

The 30% Rule

38 USCS § 1135 states, in part that

“any veteran entitled to compensation … whose disability is rated not less than 30 percent, shall be entitled to additional monthly compensation for dependents ….”

This means that in order to be eligible to receive dependent benefits for your children, you must have a combined disability rating of at least 30 percent.

When you hit this number, you are eligible to file a VA Form 686-c requesting authorization for your dependents and beginning your claim to receive compensation based on how many dependents you have.

Normally, when you receive an overall rating at or above 30%, the RO will notify you of your possible eligibility to file for Dependent benefits. (The notification is often listed on your Notice of Action).

Frequently Asked Questions

Will I be paid back to the date when my spouse and I first got married?

If it has been more than one year since you got married or had/adopted a child, the Department of Veterans Affairs may not pay you back to the date of the marriage, birth, or adoption.

Instead, they may only pay from the date they received the claim for additional disability for the dependent, or in some cases, up to a year before this date.

How Do I Know If I’m Already Receiving Dependent Benefits?

You can check your VA disability benefits easily online. When you log in, you can check your dependents under your profile.

If they are listed, then that means you should be receiving benefits on their behalf.

How do I determine what the effective date of dependent benefits will be?

Pursuant to 38 C.F.R. § 3.410(b)(ii), an award of additional compensation payable to a veteran based on a dependent will be effective on the date notice is received of the dependent’s existence, if evidence is received within one year of the Department of Veterans Affairs request.

What this means is that once you are eligible to apply for dependent benefits, it is important to file Form 686-c as soon as possible, in order to notify the VA that you have dependent’s and in turn preserve your effective date to receive the compensation.

If you have dependent children or parents that were alive and eligible on the effective date of your qualifying disability, or you were legally married on that date, then you may be able to obtain increased compensation for those dependents based on the same effective date.

How do I file a claim?

Qualified veterans meeting the eligibility criteria, can submit an electronic dependency claim. The VA may be able to decide about your claim in as little as 48 hours.

I’ve submitted it but haven’t heard an answer about my claim?

It can sometimes take 7-10 business days to receive an answer about your claim. If you haven’t received any information at that point, you can contact the VA directly at 1-800-827-1000. They operate Monday through Friday, 8:00 am to 9:00 pm ET.

When will I start receiving benefits if I’m approved?

The VA will begin paying you, and your benefits will begin to be available within two weeks after your claim is approved.

What if my spouse is also a veteran with a 30% or higher service connected disability rating? Can we claim each other and our children?

Both you and your spouse can claim each other and your children if you are both Veterans with a 30% or higher disability rating. It may take longer for the VA to process, and it is recommended that you submit online to get the fastest decision possible.

What happens if I get divorced or need to remove a dependent?

Some veterans are now divorced from the partner they were legally married to while serving in the military.

There are certain questions about VA benefits in this situation, and in cases where a dependent needs to be removed.

The easiest way to remove a dependent is online, through your profile.

The VA will take longer to remove a child than a spouse, but an online claim is always faster than a paper claim.

If the VA finds that you continue to receive compensation for a former spouse or dependent without notifying them, it could significantly impact your future benefits.

The VA would attempt to collect the money back that was incorrectly dispersed, usually by withholding from your monthly checks until the full amount was paid.

You do not need to remove a child from your benefits once they reach an ineligible age.

The VA will track their age based on their date of birth, and they will be removed when they reach 18 years of age unless they are attending college, which would increase the limit to a maximum age of 23.

Why is it better to file my claim online versus by mail?

The VA processes electronic (online) dependency claims much faster than paper claims because of an automatic processing system.

You can often get a decision in as little as 48 hours after filing.

The online application is straightforward. Paper forms require multiple forms to be used and can be convoluted.

You can also easily upload supporting documents in the same application.

It also allows you to keep a record of the date you started the claim, so it can be used as the effective date for when the dependency benefits are awarded.

There are many benefits for dependents of prior active duty service members.

They include everything from financial benefits to healthcare and education.

If the Veteran with the service connected disability has passed away, there are additional benefits available for a surviving spouse, child or parent.

These benefits are through dependency and indemnity compensation (DIC).

If you have any questions regarding your dependent benefits, the VA can be contacted at 1-800-827-1000.

Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:00am to 9:00pm ET.

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FAQs

Who qualifies as a VA dependent? ›

To be considered a dependent, one of these must be true of an unmarried child: They're under 18 years old, or. They're between the ages of 18 and 23 years old and enrolled in school full time, or. They became permanently disabled before they turned 18.

Can family members of Veterans use the VA? ›

In some cases, VA offers health care and services for a Veteran's family members and dependents (beneficiaries) based on certain conditions and eligibility requirements. VA serves more than 360,000 beneficiaries through its family member and dependent health care benefit programs.

How do I verify dependents for VA benefits? ›

Use VA Form 21-0538 to verify the status of your dependents (spouse or children). We use this information to determine if you're eligible to continue receiving additional compensation based on how many dependents you have.

What qualifies a spouse as a dependent VA? ›

You married the Veteran or service member within 15 years of their discharge from the period of military service during which the qualifying illness or injury started or got worse, or. You were married to the Veteran or service member for at least 1 year, or. You had a child with the Veteran or service member.

Can a grown child of a Veteran get benefits? ›

Most military benefits for non-disabled adult children end at age 21 -- and all of them disappear by age 27. If a child is a full-time college student, they can still receive Tricare until age 23. And parents can purchase an extended Tricare option, known as Tricare Young Adult, until they are 25.

Do I get my husband's VA disability if he dies? ›

The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) pays a benefit called Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) to your surviving spouse and dependent children if you die of service-connected causes.

Can I use my father's Veterans benefits? ›

What are veteran survivor benefits? As a veteran's surviving spouse, child or parent, you may qualify for certain benefits, such as help with burial costs and compensation or pension. You may also qualify for health care, life insurance, or financial assistance to help pay for school or training.

Does my family get VA benefits? ›

If you're the spouse, surviving spouse, dependent child, or family caregiver of a Veteran or service member, you may qualify for health care benefits. In certain cases, you may also qualify for health care benefits due to a disability related to your Veteran's service.

Can I use my deceased father's VA benefits? ›

VA provides pension benefits to qualifying surviving spouses and unmarried dependent children of deceased Veterans with wartime service.

How long does it take the VA to process a dependent claim? ›

benefits.va.gov/vso to learn more and find a representative near you. If you did not include any dependents on your disability claim, make sure you file your dependency claim as soon as you get your 30% or higher rating from VA. VA will pay you within two weeks if we're able to finalize your claim.

How much do dependents add to VA disability? ›

Since your basic rate already provides payment for 1 child, you would add the rate of $70.00 for each additional child (so $70 x 2). If your spouse receives Aid and Attendance, you would also add $130 (which is the added amount for a spouse receiving Aid and Attendance, for a Veteran with a 70% disability rating).

How much is the VA dependent parent benefit? ›

How Much Is the VA Dependent Parent Benefit? The benefit amount you'll receive for eligible dependents varies based on your parent's income and your VA disability rating. For a rating of 30% to 60%, one dependent parent, and no spouse or children, you can get a total of between $476.69 and $1214.68 per month.

What is the VA 10 year rule? ›

TEN YEAR RULE -The VA 10 year rule means the VA cannot eliminate a rating that's been in place for 10 years or more. However, the rating can be reduced if medical evidence shows that the disability has improved.

Will VA back pay for dependents? ›

Veterans can also earn VA disability back pay for dependents. If a veteran did not have dependents to add at the time of their claim or simply neglected to add existing ones, they may be eligible for additional back pay.

What is the 5 year rule for VA disability? ›

The VA disability 5 year rule allows the VA to ex-examine your VA disability rating within 5 years of your initial examination if your condition is expected to improve over time. However, the VA may still change your disability rating past the 5-year deadline if your condition has significantly improved.

What benefits do veterans get for their kids? ›

Children of Veterans Benefits
  • Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) ...
  • Higher Monthly Compensation for Disabled Veterans With Dependents. ...
  • CHAMPVA Health Care Benefits for Children of Veterans. ...
  • TRICARE Health Care Benefits. ...
  • The Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC)
Oct 2, 2020

How much is 100 percent VA disability with dependents? ›

70 - 100% Disability
Dependent Status70%100%
Veteran with Spouse and Child$1,907.06$3,971.78
Veteran with Child$1,757.06$3,757.00
Each Additional Child Under 18$70.00$100.34
Each Additional Schoolchild Over 18$226.00$324.12
3 more rows
Nov 29, 2022

How long do VA benefits last for a child? ›

The program offers up to 45 months of education benefits. Children generally must use the benefit between the ages of 18 and 26.

How much does a spouse get from VA disability after death? ›

If you're the surviving spouse of a Veteran, your monthly rate would start at $1,562.74. Then for each additional benefit you qualify for, you would add the amounts from the Added amounts table.

Does the wife of a 100 disabled Veteran get benefits? ›

As the spouse or dependent child of a Veteran or service member, you may qualify for certain benefits, like health care, life insurance, or money to help pay for school or training.

When a Veteran dies does his wife get his benefits? ›

A VA Survivors Pension offers monthly payments to qualified surviving spouses and unmarried dependent children of wartime Veterans who meet certain income and net worth limits set by Congress. Find out if you qualify and how to apply.

Can I get veterans benefits from my ex husband? ›

DIVORCED SPOUSES MAY RETAIN SOME VA BENEFITS

The former spouse of a veteran may retain some benefits after the divorce. However, those benefits are limited, eligibility will depend on factors such as the length of the marriage and the length of military service, and some require action shortly after the divorce.

How long does a spouse get survivors benefits? ›

These benefits are payable for life unless the spouse begins collecting a retirement benefit that is greater than the survivor benefit. Beneficiaries entitled to two types of Social Security payments receive the higher of the two amounts.

At what age does VA disability stop? ›

VA disability does not stop because of a veterans age. VA disability compensation benefits are for the life of the disabled veteran.

Does VA money count as income? ›

The benefits are tax-free. Who is eligible? You may be eligible for disability compensation if: You have a service-related disability or illness.

Who is eligible for VA survivor benefits? ›

Survivors Pension, formerly referred to as Death Pension, is a tax-free benefit payable to a low-income, un-remarried surviving spouse or unmarried child(ren) of a deceased Veteran with wartime service.

What happens if a veteran dies with a VA loan? ›

According to the VA official site, the surviving spouse, where applicable, would assume the debt. In cases where the borrower dies but has no co-borrower or surviving spouse, the veteran's estate would be responsible for the VA guaranteed mortgage.

Who gets military death benefits? ›

The death gratuity program provides for a special tax free payment of $100,000 to eligible survivors of members of the Armed Forces, who die while on active duty or while serving in certain reserve statuses. The death gratuity is the same regardless of the cause of death.

How much do military spouses get paid after death? ›

SBP provides up to 55 percent of a service member's retired pay to an eligible beneficiary upon the death of the member. After the service member passes away, the SBP annuity is paid out monthly to the surviving spouse, or to the child or children of the member.

What is the 8 year rule for VA disability? ›

The 8-year provision actually goes both ways. The veteran needs to have been totally disabled for at least 8 years before death and then the benefit will be granted to surviving spouses for the same 8 years.

What not to say at C&P exam? ›

Don't Lie or Stretch the Truth. This is a big one. Don't ever lie or stretch the truth when it comes to your VA disability claim. At your C&P exam, you should think, look, act, and speak as you would on a normal day.

How far back does VA back pay go? ›

Furthermore, VA will only grant benefits back to the date of discharge for service members who apply for benefits within a year of their military discharge. As mentioned above, the effective date is most often the same date that VA received the veteran's claim.

Is 70% PTSD a permanent VA disability? ›

The veteran's total disability due to PTSD is permanent with no likelihood of improvement. The 100 percent rating for PTSD is total, permanent, and static in nature.

How much is VA disability going up in 2023? ›

Disabled veterans and military retirees will see a nearly 9% cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) in their monthly benefits from the Department of Veterans Affairs in 2023, the most significant jump since 1981.

What does 80% VA disability get you? ›

According to the VA's 2022 disability compensation rates, if you have an 80% rating you will receive $1,778.43 per month if you have no dependents. However, with a 100% disability rating that number can increase to $3,332.06 per month.

How often does the VA verify dependents? ›

Completion of VA Form 21-0538 and VA Form 21-0537 by beneficiaries allows the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) to verify the following approximately once every eight years: status of the dependents of all Veterans in receipt of additional compensation for a spouse and/or child(ren), and.

Can I add my mom to my VA benefits? ›

A Veteran whose parent(s) are dependent upon him or her for financial support may be paid additional benefits. The dependent parent benefit is paid based on need. The parental relationship must be established, and it must be verified that the parents are financially dependent upon the Veteran in order to qualify.

How much is 20 percent VA disability with dependents? ›

As of December 1st, 2022 the VA disability rate benefit amounts are as follows: 0 percent disability rating: $0.00 per month. 10 percent disability rating: $165.92 per month. 20 percent disability rating: $327.99 per month.

What is the VA age 55 rule? ›

Once you turn 55, you are typically "protected" and will no longer have to attend an exam to prove that your condition has not changed unless there is reason to suspect fraud. This is sometimes called the 55-year rule.

What disabilities can the VA not prove? ›

No, there aren't any VA disability claims that cannot be proven. In fact, all VA claims must be proven on an “at least as likely as not” basis. If you have no evidence (no proof), your VA claim will get denied.

What is the 1 year rule for VA claims? ›

If we get a claim within one year of the date of a Veteran's death, the effective date is the first day of the month in which the Veteran died. If we get a claim more than one year after a Veteran suffered an injury, their injury got worse, or they died, the effective date is the date we get the claim.

How does the VA verify dependents? ›

Use VA Form 21-0538 to verify the status of your dependents (spouse or children). We use this information to determine if you're eligible to continue receiving additional compensation based on how many dependents you have.

What is the lump sum payout for VA disability? ›

Disability severance pay is a one- time lump sum payment. The amount equals 2 months of basic pay for each year of service which includes active service and inactive duty points, but the total service years cannot exceed 19 years.

Who is considered a dependent for VA benefits? ›

A dependent is defined as a family member who relies on an active duty service member or Veteran financially and meets certain criteria. Dependents can be: a spouse. unmarried children (up to 18 or 23 if enrolled in school)

What disabilities are considered permanent by the VA? ›

Injuries that are unlikely to improve with treatment. A totally incapacitating, long-standing disease. Permanent loss or loss of use of both hands, both feet, one hand and one foot, or eyesight in both eyes. Being permanently bedridden.

What is 50% VA disability for 2023? ›

What is the compensation for a 50% VA Disability Rating? The 2023 compensation rate (an 8.7% increase) for a 50% VA disability rating is $1,041.82. For more information about compensation for dependents, our 2023 VA Disability Rates and Compensation article covers all the updates for the year.

Is sleep apnea a permanent VA disability? ›

Can the VA Take Away My Sleep Apnea Rating? Since the condition is not considered a permanent VA disability, you can have your rating taken away by the VA. If the condition resolves over time, and you are reevaluated to not have sleep apnea any more, you will no longer be able to claim that rating for compensation.

What is the VA dependent form for over 18? ›

VA Form 21-674

Use this VA form when claiming benefits for a Veteran's child who is at least 18 years old, but under 23, and attending school.

How many dependents does the VA pay for? ›

Each additional child entitles veterans to a supplement on their VA disability pay rates. So, there is no limit on how many children can qualify.

What is the age limit for VA dependent benefits? ›

If you're the child of a Veteran or service member

You can get benefits if you're between the ages of 18 and 26, except in certain cases. You may be married or unmarried. If you're over 18 years old and using DEA, you can't get Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) from us.

How much does the VA give for each dependent? ›

Since your basic rate already provides payment for 1 child, you would add the rate of $70.00 for each additional child (so $70 x 2). If your spouse receives Aid and Attendance, you would also add $130 (which is the added amount for a spouse receiving Aid and Attendance, for a Veteran with a 70% disability rating).

What is a dependent parent for VA purposes? ›

A Veteran whose parent(s) are dependent upon him or her for financial support may be paid additional benefits. The dependent parent benefit is paid based on need. The parental relationship must be established, and it must be verified that the parents are financially dependent upon the Veteran in order to qualify.

What is the VA dependency form for parents? ›

Use VA form 21P-509 if you're a Veteran whose parents are dependent on you for support, or you're the parent of a Veteran who died on active duty or as a result of service-connected injuries or disease.

How long does a VA dependency claim take? ›

benefits.va.gov/vso to learn more and find a representative near you. If you did not include any dependents on your disability claim, make sure you file your dependency claim as soon as you get your 30% or higher rating from VA. VA will pay you within two weeks if we're able to finalize your claim.

Does age matter in a VA claim? ›

No, age is not a factor in VA claims. The only time age can impact your VA disability benefits is if the VA is trying to determine your eligibility for 100 percent Permanent and Total disability.

Does having dependents increase VA disability? ›

Yes. We may increase your monthly payments if one or more of the below is true: You have a very severe disability or loss of limb, or. You have a spouse, child, or dependent parent and your combined disability rating is 30% or greater, or.

How much is 100% disability from the VA with dependents? ›

70 - 100% Disability
Dependent Status70%100%
Veteran with Spouse$1,804.06$3,823.89
Veteran with Spouse and Child$1,907.06$3,971.78
Veteran with Child$1,757.06$3,757.00
Each Additional Child Under 18$70.00$100.34
3 more rows
Nov 29, 2022

How much will the VA pay my wife to be my caregiver? ›

Spouses, unfortunately, cannot be paid to provide care, as their income is also considered when calculating a veteran's pension amount. However, other relatives, such as adult children, nieces and nephews, and grandchildren, can be paid to be caregivers.

What happens to my VA disability when I turn 65? ›

No, VA disability does not stop at age 65; nor does it stop at age 67. VA disability benefits are for the life of the disabled veteran! And in some instances, the veteran's VA benefits can pass to the surviving spouse. At age 65, a disabled veteran may also become eligible for VA pension benefits.

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